Posted by: Betty | 2008/09/04

Do we or Don' t we?

Briefly, we were together from 18 years old, went out for 5 years got engaged, engaged for 3 got married, married for 1 and a half years and got divorced in Jan 07... so much happened, I wasn' t happy, I wanted more, change, excitement... same old trap!
We were apart for 8 month when we tried again for 2 months but I was scared, we didn' t know how to fix it, sleeping with other people during our seperation didn' t help... it' s another year later and we both have someone new in our lives... we talk every now and then but it' s alway emotional (crying) because we know we want each other back we just don' t know how... We know it' s wrong to hurt the other parties... help, please... can we fix this or are we wasting our lives? We have a 10 year history (no kids)... we compare everyone and everything to each other... Will the 3rd time be different?
Thank you!

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If you wanted to get back together but didn't know how to fix the relationship, why on earth didn't you go for relationship counselling ? Certainly its wrong to hurt other parties, or to have made committments neither of you perhaps meant, to others. You will not fix this on your own --- your history has proved that. 3rd time wont be any different, unless you work together well in counselling and perhaps lay the groundwork for it to work well

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