Our expert says:
I used to have an aura, but I found it hard to her the right sort of batteries.
Most things happen out of the blue, either because they could not have been expected, or because we failed to pay due attention to signs that it would happen. And there's something in Serendipity ( what a nice word that is ! ) , the art of managing to be open to good fortune.
You are only damaged goods if you insist on being thus. And yes, low self-esteem or self-dislike tends to make one unattractive to others. Whether people see through your superficial disguise, only they could tell you, but obviously it's possible. And the social butterrfly is much less attractive than most social butterflies seem to think. Social lepidopterists are less common than you might think. Nor is it always attractive to appear so confident.
Why not consider some sessions of CBT therapy, to understand better what you want, and what may be hindering you from reaching that ?
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