Our expert says:
It was an awfully bad idea to have stayed with your previous, cheating boyfriend, and this suggests that you have an inappropriately low self-respect and self-esteem --- you deserve very much better than that. Now, if you have a residue of suspicion which is damaging your current relationship with a guy who is apparently caring and faithful, see a personal counsellor, or perhaps a relationship counsellor together, to work this through. You know, that if you have been looking so closely for three years and have found nothing, there is almost certainly nothing to find --- the expectation is a delayed response to what happened before. Work with your own therapist / counsellor to get over these bad habits of thought and expectation
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