Our expert says:
Maybe it was wise to wait a year before starting to date again, but it sounds ( its not clear in your message ) as though you committed yourself to this new arrangement with a problem drinker / alcoholic, rather too quickly.
He seems very free to criticise you for all your failings, real or imagined or exaggerated, but apparently fails to notice his own glaring faults ?
So you're engaged : Don't marry a man with a drinking problem or the other bad behaviours you describe. What possible advantage could that be ?
He is doing this because he has many problems he doesn't want to face up to or fix, and prferes to blame you or others for everything. Unless and until he can stop drinking, and stay stopped, and work with proper help to deal with his other issues, he will not be a worthwhile companion. YOu could do better, and deserve better
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