Our expert says:
Be wary. "My wife doesn't understand me" was an old joke cliche, and men who are keen to have an affair invariably complain that their current relationship isn't working, whether it is or not, and whether the problems are their fault, or that of their partner, or both.
Similarly, I rarely come aross any relationship, however much intended and agreed to be "purely physical" that didn't before long become emotionally entangling. Also, men who genuinely do not want to hurt their partner, do not have relationshiops with others, "purely physical" or otherwise.
How do you feel so sure that the relatonship that is ending, is NOT doing so because of you ? Because your pal, who was cheating on his wife, says so ? How do you manage to feel so confident that he will not, sooner or later, cheat on you, too ?
How are you distinguishing reliably between what he says to you and what is actually true ? What do you think he was saying to her ?
If you meet a man who says his current relaionship isn't working --- tell him to try to make it work, and if this proves to be beyond his skills, then not to contact uyou until it is entrely over.
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