Our expert says:
If I received R 5o for very time I get asked "Am I over-reacting?" I'd be a very rich man !
Sounds like his promotion has foolishly gone to his head, and that, earning a bit more, he is now wasting all of it on foolishness. Do NOT just keep on forgiving him, and make it clear that he needs to either engage properly with you and discuss these unpleasant changes in his behaviour, or lose your company. His threats and over-controlling tendencies are frankly abusive --- indeed, call POWA for specific advice on how to safely exit a relationship with this cheap and cocky little boy. You are UNDER-reacting. Find a good safe place to go and stay, with friends or family, and move out. Maybe during one of his long absences.
Good advice all round !
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