Our expert says:
Are there actually more people taking advantage of you now - or are you just recognizing more clearly that it is and has been happening ?
Maybe some counselling could help you to become more self-confident and assertive, better able to stand up for yourself? less easily exploited ?
Those guys who disappointed you over Christmas, don't sound like friends. And with this committee, make it clear you don't appreciate being given all the scut work, and being excluded from the more pleasant meals and other parts of the task, and expect to be treated more clearly.
Don't let this stop you attending the function - be there to make it clear how much you did, otherwise they will take all the credit themselves
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