Our expert says:
Well, Mandy, of course divorced people DO remarry ; some of them remarry numerous times, just as some get divorced numerous times. I think one can stand up for oneself without sounding whining and needy --- it's entirely fair for you to insist on a serious discussion with this guy who probably finds the current arrangement ideal for you and fears that marriage might spoil for him something that is working just fine. It's far for you to want to get married, and to have clarity from him as to what his intentions are, before you spend too many years waiting for something that might not be coming.
I wonder what "needy" really means. I suspect it's something to do with someone demanding that other people supply something they're well able to supply for themselves, or when they keep whining about something they want without ever being satisfed, however much they get of whatever it is they're asking for.
So you're not being "needy" --- you're being reasonable in wanting claification rather than long-running ambiguity.
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