Our expert says:
That's not a nice thing to do. Don't you need to sit down and talk this out with her, making it clear that you are the father, and YOU will decide when and if and how they will be disciplined. How many children has she raised well ? And if none, when wo appointed her such an expert on the matter ? It doesn't sound as if your children are a problem at all, but a girlfriend who is not at all special enough in this respect, and needs to learn to stop throwing her weight around, and leave you in charge of discipline and child rearing.
blackbird makes a lot of sense here. Are you sure this is the right woman for you to be with ?
Tell her you're not interested in her rules, but you're happy for her to help to apply Your rules. Maybe she's trying to apply some of the wretched rules her parents applied to her.
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