Our expert says:
Many people who divorce, especially those who had been causing most of the difficulties, later regret that they didn'tm invest the time and effort into trying to solve the problems first --- that's why, except in blatantly abusive relationships, I generally recommend that a couple sincerely engage in Marriage Counselling First, in order to see how much can be solved and salvaged.
What you're aiming at, at this stage, isn't to forget your first husband, but to get over the sadness, and to be able to think fondly of the good parts of the mariage, without pain, and to be able to think comfortably of the bad parts, as aspects of life that were well worth leaving behind. You're wise not to rush into a firm and binding second relationship yet, though this guy sounds pleasant and understanding. Maybe in time, even consider a spot of relationship counselling between you, before deciding on a definite committment
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