Our expert says:
I suspect many people would welcome your sort of "emotional; abuse" for R 1.8 m. It sounds unfortunate if your son, while working on his other problems, has been encouraged into obestiy by her bad eating habits. Is this position, in which she limits your acces to the child, etc., one that has been laid down by a court, or by her ? If its not a legally binding agreement, maybe you need good legal advice to get a better agreement set up --- and I think the law is supposed to have become far more sympathetic to a father's right to access to his child. Obviously your ability to contribute directly and usefully to your child's life is maximal in the times he spends with you --- can't he spend some weekends and holidays with you ? How much all the money she receives goes towards benefitting the child, and how much towards her own pleasures, is unclear.
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