Our expert says:
Whew ! Sorry, but when messages reach 100 words or so, I find it really hard to keep track of so many details.
It sounds as though you have made a perfectly sensible and justifiable decision to divorce your huisband. When the divorce is through and over, it would be reasonable for you to consider dating again, but NOT too rapidly ( on the rebound, as such relationships usually fail ) nor leaping into mariage rather than taking it more gradually, to be more sure of yourself and the other guy.
Is it possible, and perhaps beneficial to both of you, to form a nice ordinary friendship with this guy, rather than becoming deeply intimate and long-term, at least not for a while ? If he is indeed a good potential long-term partner, this isn;'t likely to change if you wait a while to get to know each other better, especially when it might be in more natural settings than this artificial isolation in the sork context.
As for defining a rebound relationship, I think any useful definition would depend more on the extent to which you are over the previous relationship, not exceedingly needy or vulnerable, and moving on with your life in other areas of life, as well
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