Our expert says:
It's hardly a marriage, is it ? Would it not have been possible for him to bring you and the children to live with him, if he has decided to remain permanently in the Middle East ? If he is hardly ever here, how can he acuse you of anything at all ?
You need legal advice about the problem of how to divorce an absent man, and the laws here and wherever he is will be relevant. Its surprising he never told you where he atually works that's both rude and sinister. You'd need the advice of a sincere Islamic Imam, but I don't know of how his religion would forbid him from sleeping with someone he's married to. I'm pretty sure it wouldn't allow him to stay with anyone else he wasn't married to. Are we sure he hasn't also married someone else over there ?
You may need the legal advice, too, on the issue o keeping your children with you, as I understand that its not uncommon for men from some such countries to take their children with them "on holiday" and just refuse to return them.
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