Our expert says:
Good grief, what an ugly, prejudiced and foolish woman she is !
No doubt the complex would not be able to act against you without running into legal problems, and there are national organisations concerned with such obvious racism and hatred which might be interested in this awful woman.
Maybe we should be pleased that she is now a freak, whereas not very long ago there were many more like her.
As you say, what horrible twisted ideas boil around in her tiny mind is her affair, but speaking them aloud and making anyone else feel bad, is NOT her privilege.
She seems to think that by speaking cruelly but in Afrikans, that you might not understand what she is saying ? I wonder if she'd be surprised if one day you said, pleasantly but in Afrikaans : "More Tannie - dit lyk soos wonderlike weer vandag!"
And discuss this with your son, to help him understand that not everyone is like this woman, who has twisted and ugly ideas about anyone different from her ( indeed, she'd probably have nasty things to say about Indians, or Portuguese or Greeks, or anyone fortunate enough not to be a duplicate of herself ).
And that one should feel sorry for them, because they will not be able to enjoy the interesting diffferences between us, and we need not take their ugly comments seriously or to heart.
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