Our expert says:
If he is threatening or carrying out threats of physical violence, you could consider calling the police and laying charges against him, to help him at least realize that this is serious stuff and not to be done. Clearly, he needs to be within a system of clear rules adn consequences, to learn the essential life lessons of discipline. Of course you worry about him, because you're basically a good mom, thouigh perhaps no skilled at handling the very difficult situations a kid creates like this. Of course you deserve to live, and he is not a baby any longer, even if he is behaving like a dangerously strong baby without a sense of responsibility of self-control.
Placing your son's needs first may in fact NOT place his needs first - what he wants is often not what he needs. YOU are not destroying your son's life. IF his dad would be les tolerant and more likely to provide discipline, that could be really useful for the boy
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