Our expert says:
Have you considered going for some pre-marital, couples counselling, together ? A good way to explore, understand your similarities and differences, and see what can be worked out. The view wach of you holds, is understandable - and she may be showing a more typical response of someone who grew up poor and neglected - that they want not just comfort, but too much of everything. To want a nice house is fine, but a huge house isn't needed. A car may be very helpful, but cars not really needed.
( I"m always curious about the crooks who steal millions, and then buy 8 luxury cars - how many can they drive at once ? )
Maybe her attitudes are appropriate to the experiences she had with an unpleasant family, but don't match your supportive and good family - and maybe she can't understand because she has never experienced the sort of family life you had ?
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