Our expert says:
Relationships are all really about trust. People are not always monogamous, you just have to read this forum to come to that conclusion, and you just have to look at at our HIV stats (1,800 people are infected daily in SA and 300 people die daily).
Most people are infected in relationships, because they trust their partners. However, let's not go down the confesssion route.
Risk factors from oral sex
* Hep A, B & C
You could have been at risk for any of the above. Get a medical check-up and do tell the doctor the truth, else you might get treated for a different reason. Do not have unprotected sex with yourr wife till all your results are clear. If you have become infected with HIV recently you will be VERY infectious now,a nd chances are you'll be testing negative on an HIV test, yet be VERY positive and be infecting her.
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