Our expert says:
Sounds mighty like Depression. Best to see a shrink or at least a good GP for an assessment and advice. And depression can easily have both obsessive and paranoid features, depending on our basic personality trends.
Sad that your husband is one of the foolish ones who "doesn't believe in mental illness", because mental illness believes in him, One day he is likely to get his share of it, and will find it hard to face the fact, or to figure out who else to blame,, and will find it far harder to seek help when he needs it.
Obviously you have loads of backbone, so take the initiative to see someone and take care of yourself --- it shouldn't be up to him to decide what you need.
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