Our expert says:
Obviously it was wrong for him to do so ( and I wonder how you found out at this late stage ) --- but though you're not being silly, not at all, you're not being wise. If there is been no cheating since the marriage, you have no real grounds to be so upset, especially at this late stage --- it's understandable that you found this upsetting, but the anger and angst at this time is unpleasant for you and not at all useful. See a counsellor to work on getting over this, maybe some indivisual sessions for yourself, and then perhaps some sessions he could join in
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