Our expert says:
The sad fact of life is that really bad things happen, usually to really good people. But not all te time, fortunately. I'm pleased to hear that you're seeing a shrink to work on this and to set yourself free from the aftermath of this louse's bad behaviour. Remind ourself, whenever these bad feelings arise --- "it was HIS fault, I did nothing wrong, I can feel proud of how good I have been. " Feel sorry for the woman who has now ended as his wife. YOU know she cannot possibly rely on anything he says or promises, and that he's unlikely to be faithful to her. It is HIM who should feel ashamed when he sees you, not the other way round. And people who knew you as a couple will soon realize what a louse he is, and have no reason to think any the less of you. This episode has been a bad blow to your self-image, but work hard with your shrink, and you can emerge from this stronger than before.
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