Our expert says:
Boy o boy you were right, it certainly is complicated ! And people say the plots of soap operas are unrealistic ? I hear your dilemma. It sounds as if there are good reasons for an ongoing rethinking of the relationship ; yes, the arrival of his Ex with her viciously cruel comments to you ( he ought to take your complaints seriously ) , etc., all give reason to wonder whether this difficult relationship has more value than its cost, especially as there sounds like no early possibility of improvement in the structural difficulties.
Whether the landlord is right to complain, he is probably well within his rights, I suppose, but that's a legal issue. Isn't it practical for your bf to look for another apartment, at around the same price, with a more cheerful or disinterested landlord ? I dont suppose it's possible ( the timing of events isn't clear in your long message ) that the ex might have had a word with the landlord, is it ?
As you know, "paranoid, selfish and jealous" doesn't lie purely in the content of what you say, but in the way you say it, and it could be possible to raise all these concerns, in sadness and peacefully, without sounding unreasonable.
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