Our expert says:
The mistake was replying to that message at all. Change your e-mail address, your cell number, and any other address by which she could contact you. Maybe one final message saying that any further communication from her will be given to your lawyers, and that you are considering getting a court restraining order forbidding her from contacting you at all, as a malicious stalker. And proceed to get a restraining order, as she sounds an unpleasantly disturbed and disturbing person.
Dont even imagine "abducting her" which would be highly illegal. If the police get involved ( mif she breaches the restraining order, for instance ) they will notice how odd she is, and they can get a doctor to section her for institutional assessment and treatment if necessary.
Get the restraining order before the wedding, if possible, and have the LAWYER or preferably the COurt inform her of this, including the information that she should not attend any wedding or function which you might attend, as she is not to come within a km or whatever of you.
"real man", unfortunately, sounds almost as disturbed as your ex. Sad.
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