Our expert says:
If you don't want committment at this time, it's fine to start a friendly relationship with a man who's free to do so, simply pleasantly making it clear you're not looking for committment now.
It is foolish to think that you need to starft a relationship with a married man to achieve a lack of committment - that's really a poor and unconvincing excuse.
Any affair with a married man is likely to end unhapilly all round, and can hurt his wife and children who are innocent parties.
And if you feel you need to buy him presents to show your love, you're not understanding love.
Stop dating this or any other married man, be fair to other women, and find a man of your own.
If another woman had started an affair with the father of your child, and bought him gifts, are you suggesting you'd have been happy with that ?
You know you should stop, and that you shouldn't have started this.
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