Our expert says:
Sounds like an odd degree of discrimination against you, Lee. Why is the younger brother so favoured ? I don't know what sort of ?missionary work" he might be doing, but I have never heard of any sincere missionary who is as rich as he sounds, who can aford to dress well, party and travel - sounds like a major rip-off somewhere !
Cutting yourself won't solve anything, though seeing a counsellor should indeed help. With one degree and one on the way, it seems hard to believe that you cannot find an alternative job.
With all you can't afford, it sounds like your dad is not paying you the going wage for someone with your qualifications, and that's not fair either. When you leave, he won't find anyone else prepared to work for him without a good living wage. Indeed, aren't there jobs needing lesser qualifications, but paying more than you get now, which you could take, so as to be able to afford to get your own place, etc., and from there look for a new job in your own field and at better salaries ?
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