Our expert says:
In some ways your story exemplifies the problems of internet-related dating --- that things are rarely what they seem, and people rarely who they are declared to be. Maybe a counsellor could help you explore the many issues you raise, and work towards making sensible decisions about them. On the gay questions, actually its not a black/white gay or straight thing, as most people are somewhere on a spectrum between the two extremes, and many otherwise fully heterosexual men have some gay experiences, without swinging way off towards that extreme
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