Our expert says:
YOur experience confirms my view that an apology has to be demonstrated in ACTIONS not merely in words. Unlike wandile, I don't beleieve there is ever any value in tit-for-tat cheating, and it completely undermines your right to be bothered by what he does. Talk calmly to him saying that it has come to your notice ( maybe leave it unclear exactly how this happened ) that he is still contacting the other woman, and so its clear his apologies and promises don't mean much, and press him to accept joining you in marriage counselling
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