Our expert says:
You are describing a chronically selfish, cruel and abusive man, who does not deserve to have any wife or children. STOP FORGIVING him for unforgiveable behaviours. I wish the idiots who roam around preaching forgiveness would themselves have experiences they would actually find difficult to forgive, and could recognize the harm and pain they keep causing to other people.
NOTHING will change with a guy like this. You cannot "make it work" one-sidedly. Divorce would not mean that you failed your kids --- continuing to live with a cruel loser like this is failing them far more. Call POWA and talk with their counsellors who specialize in the problems of abused women, and plan an escape for you and the children. Give up on the creep, and look after yourself and your kids
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