Our expert says:
Cool, cool, Carol.
If most of us felt entirely comfortable, comfident and cool about making such major changes, nothing would ever stay the same. Predictability seems irritating and annoying when we've got it, and endearing and comforting when we're about to lose it.
Mku apparently doesn't know that you surely do have a life, maybe more than one of them (!) and are planing a very radical revision of this one. Now, as I understood your plans, you would be TEMPORARILY without hubs, dogs, and cats, until you either found a good job etc in Durbs and they joined you, or until you decided that, despite having given it all a good go, this specific new plan wasn't working out, in which case you'd rejoin them.
OK, with dogs and cats, you can't exactly send them, or receive from them, email and phonecalls, but you'll be in contact via your huby. Sounds like a temporary lapse in that famous Carolian confidence.
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