Our expert says:
So very sorry to hear this, CJ. We are often not especially rational at such times, so leaving your gf, while probably not a great idea, should be considered understandable and forgiveable --- some people want to grieve privately. For her to threaten suicide to you at a time like this is awful, and inconsiderate, however bad she her self is feeling. Emotional blackmail is a bad thing at any time, but especially so when someone like yourself is so vulnerable. I tend to agree with Chelle. Send an SMS as she suggests, and leave it at that for now, and care for yourself. You're not able to protect her from herself, and you can remain open to talking with her if and when she enables that to happen
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