Posted by: pary | 2008/11/13

correct me if i am wrong

Guys quick question, ma girl want to go to perform pap smear. who do you think should pay for this.....

me or her, we are both working, as i told you earlier on, we live in different apartments.

i dont want to sound like a jerk or insensitive, but i think she should pay for it...i mean i care that she wants to be clean and i support her, hell i am also willing to take her there myself but i don' t think i should pay the bill when she can afford to...

i think, the only reason she is bringing this up now, is that she knows i am getting paid tommorow....

am i imagining things here, my gf claims i am stingy, i think not,

i spend time with her, we go movies, romantic place and i also buy her presents, we are a normal couple, is there more to a relationship than that ...should i actually be allocating money to give to her when we both work...

I am still bitting around, i dont want to loose her or answer her insensitively.....

Guys correct me if i am wrong

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Posted by: Jakes | 2008/11/14

She should pay! Does she pay for your golf games? Or give you money to go drink?

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Posted by: come on | 2008/11/14

A gynae check is about R650.00, if she is not even living with you, she should pay, but if she is short of money then help her for goodness sakes

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Posted by: Phontie | 2008/11/13

Pary you so dammmm greedy Papsmear is less than R200 or free at the gorvement clinic you make it sound like a big thing .what wrong with you paying it any way as you An and Female you must learn to shut up you dont know how is this 2 is doing ....

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Posted by: An | 2008/11/13

I agree with Female. She should pay.
I would never expect, or even think about asking, my boyfriend to pay for that.

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Posted by: Female | 2008/11/13

It' s her body and health, she must pay. If you volunteer, fine but she shouldn' t EXPECT it. It' s ridiculous, really.

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