Our expert says:
This is usually a trying time in any circumstances, this close to delivery at the end of a pregnancy ; espcially when you're having to cope on your own while your husband is away. Do you have close family and friends who can continue to provide you with the support you deserve ? Things sound as if they'd be confusing to the best and brightest of us in the best of circumstances, so it's not surprising you feel unsure of how you feel.
it's not clear from your message why both you and your husband so suddenly decided, apparently independently, to stop opposing the proposal that the two boys should go and live with his Ex. Maybe you both simply decided that you were tired of the squabbling involved in resisting her demands. But it's hard to se how her way of conducting this matter would have endeared her to him. Surely he wouldn't be having "constant" contact with the Ex, but, rather, frequent contact with his children, which will be different. And when he has his own child with you to spend time with, she really won't be in a competitive position. Maybe with this point of argument settled and some of the prior conflic avoided, the two of you will be able to settle more happily to raising your own child, and enjoying your own relationship.
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