Our expert says:
If you were visiting your family, couldn't you have stayed with them ? Anyhow, the last bf sounds like no major loss --- you're probably better off without him. But your ex , though supportive right now --- he sees an opportunity --- doesn't sound like a good idea either, except in an acute emergency --- none of the good reasons for having ended that relationship seem to have changed significantly . I really wonder how much he has truly changed. That's he's now keen to party till 3.30 am isn't really an improvement. He is likely to change back once you have become dependent on him. Get your own place and your independence. SOME people can change,but not in everything and anything --- but it doesn't sound as though he has had any good reason to do all the ahrd work of changing. Maria is absolutely right --- do NOT rush into this. Get your own place, become independent, and have him as one friend, and see over time whether he remains as changed as you think he is
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