Our expert says:
I wonder whether perhaps your feelings for this guy may be more related to enjoying "the soft way he looks and smiles at me", something which for some reason you are not receiving from your husband ? There are many reasons apart from any lack of love, for which one or both spouses stop signalling and expressing love and tenderness for each other, and this makes one much more vulnerable in responding when someone else is kind, wven if they themselves don't have any romantic intentions in mind. Does he really look at, and touch, and speak to NOBODY else in this manner ?
What about some personal counselling to help you sort out some of all this confusion of yours ?
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