Our expert says:
My crystal ball is malfunctioning ( so hard to get the right batteries for it ) so I really can't tell whether anyone is right for anyone else, especially at such a distance. Maybe if you leaned a bit closer to the computer screen ?
Seriously, though, you have no need to feel scared of seeing a counsellor, who is trained to be approachable and easy to talk with, and that is where you could best discuss these issues fully and find your own best answers to them. Maybe relationship / premarriage counselling, toether, would be most useful. Call FAMSA, which has a good branch in Durban, as a source of counselling.
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