Our expert says:
Nobody can instruct you as to how to stop loving anyone. But don't ever forget that you are especially vulnerable after a breakup, and need to be cautious not to over-value the simple kindness of someone else when you want comforting, and to recognize that some predators qwill seek to take advantage of your vulnerability. As you are both in the throes of a breakup, this is not a good time for either of you to make lasting decisions about a relationship. And then you say he already has a second woman ? You really want to be number three ? See a counsellor and sort out your own felings, and don't expect this other guy to solve your problems.
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