Our expert says:
Can you renegotiate this relationship as a friendship and a convenient "friends-sharing" set-up ? I wonder why you vowed to stay togetehr forever ? With him being HIV positive, sex with him carries a significant risk for you, especially if this continues in the long-term. I'm not sure that such vows cannot and should not be re-negotiated. This deal sounds far too much like your role being a servant and sex-provider, while hen otherwise enjoys his life as he pleases. Slavery was abolished, by law, quite some years ago. If you feel hesitant about walking out, how about at least some marriage / relationship counselling to see what might be sorted out properly ?
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