Our expert says:
Most of this may not be about you at all, however much it may feel that way - he just does no sound marriageable at present, for whatever reason. See a good GP to check on whether you are currently depressed, and get that treated properly, with meds and counselling if possible. NEVER make any serious decision while depressed, except the decision to get assessed and to get proper help for it.
And NEVER marry someone just to avoid embarrassment. If he was genuinely "the one for me " ( and that thought includes the delusion that there is never ever more than one person on earth "for you" - that's no so ) you and he would both know it and would have been hapilly marrried for some time already
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