Our expert says:
DO I understand your message correctly you love him so much but you've long been utterly bored ? Within any boring relationship, fantasies are common, and probably not especially harmful if not acted on. OF course within a fantasy such as you mention, you assume that a new relationship would in itself be exciting, which may actually be far from the truth.
If you are finding the relationship becoming boring and less satisfying, maybe he does, too. Why not talk about this, gently, and suggest seeing a couples counsellor together, to see how it can be enhanced ?
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