Our expert says:
She sounds really immature and selfish and bad-mannered. And after over-reacting to a simple request from you, she had to even ask other people to apologise for her ? Sounds like she's not prepared to take any responsibility for her own choices and behaviours. That's a really bad sign for any future happiness in a relationship with her.
I would really suggest you think VERY carefully about starting the lobola process with such a childish and self-centred girl. I hear far too much about hatred from her, and far too litle about genuine love.
Is this really a girl ( it would be hard to describe her as a woman ) you'd be happy to spend your life with ? Her behaviour isn't likely to improve after marriage, and could get even worse.
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