Our expert says:
I rather enjoy eating a good pudding. And when I meet a really lovely pudding, I don't hesitate to eat it on the grounds that I haven't yet sampled all the other available puddings.
In other words, if I really like what I already have, I don't feel the urge to put it on hold while I search out all available options, scared that I might be missing out on something better.
On the other hand, perhaps it isn't wise to plunge right into marriage with the first person you like, before you are mature enough to understand what you like, need and want. And, most important of all, before you know enopugh about yourself.
Over-all, her comments suggest she is far from sure she actually will ever want to settle down with you, or that she would return to you.
I agree with Anon - let her go, and also move on yourself. If she doesn't return to you, then a closer relationship with her would never have worked out anyway.
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