Our expert says:
As so often seems to be the case with questions like this, it sounds as thouh he is in a comfort zone - in a happy and satisfying relationship with you, with nothing apparently to gain from marriage. YOur reaction is worth examining - your initial question is about him not confirming the mariage he has talked of - but your response is about "seeking male attention" ( does he not provide to you the attention he once did ? ) and thinking about other men - are you not being emotionally or sexually satisfied by the relationship as it is ?
Couples counselling is the method most likely to help you both clarify where you are and where you're going
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