Our expert says:
Would your husband agree to join you in marriage counselling, to explore what can and can't be sorted out between you ? Will he agree to get help for his drinking problems ?
And be realistic, too. When you say you refuse to let go of your lover --- this guy has never said he loves you --- how sure can you be that he won't let go of you, sooner or later ? Would he want to continue seeing you after you got divorced ? Some people like an affair with someone who is married, feeling protected from expectations of marriage just because the person is already married.
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