Our expert says:
Well, it sure sounds as though he has "issues", but possesion of "issues" should not be allowed to be an excuse for behaving irresponsibly or unkindly. A psychologist / counsellor should be able to help you clarify what you actually want in life, and how to get there from here, and how to use this experience as a basis for learning how to avoid being gulible and vulnerable to people seeking to take advantage of you.
If someone has hurt you, do not accept there mere promise to change and accept them promptly back --- the chance you should give them is to allow them to change, and to later prove to you that they HAVE changed, not merely hoped to do so or said that they would do so.
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