Our expert says:
many people question their sexuality, the main question you need to ask yourself is when you think about having sex is it with girls or guys? This will help answer your question about your orientation. For further advice there are a number of gay helplines around the country. If you are in cape town call the Triangle Project helpline on 021 4222 500 or check out their website at www.triangle.org.za
If you are not in Cape Town they will tell you where your nearest services are.
The main thing is don't worry, whoever you are you should feel good about being you. Take your time telling others, there is no hurry to do this. Concentrate on what your needs are first and go from there. There are people out there who will support you and understand. I am one of them, so feel free to ask further questions.
Take care and best wishes
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