Our expert says:
The French have a saying that a door should be either open or shut ; and it sounds as if the two of you havn't truly decided whether this relationship is on or off. If you actually decided not to get back together, then why should he call you, and why should you care whether or not there is someone else in his life ?
And if you are "back together again" -- why are you not together, and why does he feel distant ?
Maybe if you give him more disance, ( don't phone him or chase him, leave it to him to come to you) you'll find out what is really happening. As another old saying goes, if you love someone, set them free --- if they come back to you when they're free to go elsewhere, maybe they love you ; if they don't come back, then they were never yours in the first place.
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