Our expert says:
The friend's brother should also be aware that sex with a partner who is under-age can be criminal, and could be charged as statutory rape ( as someone under-age is presmed in law not to be able to give valid consent ).
Sometimes a girl who is pretty and doesn't feel good at anything else, may turn to sex as a field where she can feel powerful or at least capable when she feels scorned and unappreciated in other ways.
I understand your concern about giving her the pill, but she is already doing "the wrong thing" without your permission, and running a significant risk of falling pregnant and having a baby while she is still not mature herself, which would be bad for her and for any baby of hers. Wouldn't it be safer, on the whole, for her to be on the pill ? I think ( not my field ) that she could probably get contraception from a state clinic anyway, without needing your consent, so why not rather discuss it and use the opportunity to help her understand more issues of responsibility. Counselling that could help her enhance her self-esteem and her sense of being good at anything else than just being the object for someone else's sexual activity, could also be useful
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