Our expert says:
Divorce support expert
I am concerned too.
You are a young woman with two children and a list of clear statements of what you see your husband CAN'T do. You are able to mention also what he needs. I would like to ask you, what is it that YOU need and want?
Relationships are organic. They evolve and so do the people within the relationship. Sometimes people change together in the same direction and other times people change in opposing directions. It sounds like your husband and yourself are drifting in different directions. In order for you to see clarity, you need to look towards the directions in which you are growing, not your husband's direction. What do you see? How is your life looking differently from what it is now? What will it take in order for you to make this happen?
I trust these questions will bring you some answers.
With Love and Gratitude
SADSA | The South African Divorce Support Association
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