Our expert says:
I think it may be important for you to try to express how you are feeling to your partner. It can happen that one gets aroused and then because of a distraction, that feeling goes. This happens more easily with women and it is know that worry, depression, tiredness, or anger etc may decrease desire. It is important to be able to express to your partner that there may be times when penetrative sex is not what you feel like. It is important to realise that this may feel frustrating for him, but perhaps when this occurs he might try self stimualtion to orgasm as an option.
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