Posted by: Anonymous | 2009/06/17

communication problems

Hi Doc, My Husband and i have been together for 9 years and have been leaving under one roof for 8 months and one night when we were about to make love i stopped him and told him that us to do foreplay before we start making love and he did not want to do that so i moved to the other side of the bed and did not make love again until in three cases i seduced hom and made love to him and not with him as he refused to participate and after that i stopped and we never had sex ever since that that had been about +/- 3 months. When i try to speak with him about the issue he does not respond, we used to hug and kiss each other when we leave but he stopped that also when he stopped making love to me and i am so frustrated as i have tried speaking as well as taking initiatives to be intimate with him and i just don' t know what to do anymore, i sometimes think of leaving him as sex and affection are important in a relationship. what should i do so that he can be open and honest about his feelings and intentions about this marrige

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See a marriage counselor together as it sounds as though there are several relevant issues you need to work on together, with some expert advice and support. He sounds as though he feels deeply hurt and rejected by what you did, and he may be sulking a bit. Tell him you'd like to see a counsellor with him, so you can each understand each other better, and so you can understand and respect his feling and concerns better than has been possible so far

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