Our expert says:
OK, let's see. What might suit you --- I had some experience of them years ago, is an organization called Dale Carnegie ( google dale Carnegie, South Africa for details ) which runs courses in several parts of South Africa as well as internationally. It's an old-established and useful program which provides pleasant training in such things as self-confidence and public speaking , how to plan, organize and present your idea when speaking to others,. He was the best-selling author back in the 1950's already, of the book "How to win friends and influence people" and others. Think about that as one option among many.
Also, realize that you don't need to know a lot --- if you are genuinely interested in other people and in asking about and listening to THEM< they will consider you to be a very interesting person ( because most folks consider themselves to be the most interesting person in the room). YOu've also very wisely recognized the importance of wit, noticing what's funny about life and being able to comment on it amusingly, as opposed to what most people mistake it for, the business of Telling Jokes, which is often a gruesome and unamusing process.
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